Passing Peacefully and Positively…what a thought!!!
Mission statement …
“I want to help others to see so-called “death” from a new, more positive perspective, which will help people go through the experience (whether it be you or helping a loved one) with less grief, no fear, and hopefully no regrets, and instead pass in a peaceful, positive way!!”
Many people still think the end of life is an inevitable “negative” experience, and indeed, this has been the case for many people. I’ve heard many people say, “Well, we gotta die from something,” which usually means they expect most people will pass in a bad way, such as a horrible disease or some form of tragedy…arghh. Nobody needs to die in pain and agony, from some horrible disease or from a tragic accident!
YOU can CHOOSE to heal & pass in PEACE…deep breath…ahhh
As the Law of Attraction teaches (my interpretation), we create our reality through our beliefs, thoughts, and emotions (whether from fear or faith), and the decisions and choices we make based on them, including how we pass. We either create our life unconsciously from our subconscious fears and limiting beliefs, resulting in a life with more struggle, disease, and unwanted negative results. Or we can clear our fears and consciously create a more desirable life with greater ease through positive, deliberate intention. And this is why I say…“Awareness is the greatest healer.” We can’t heal what we haven’t brought into our awareness.
We can’t create lives for other people; we can only help them to the level of their “readiness” to receive knowledge and heal. Even Jesus could only heal those who were READY. These truths can free you from the burden of responsibility and guilt that you may have unnecessarily put on yourself. We can’t save others. Nobody can save us. We can only save ourselves.
I want to eliminate the words dying and death from our vocabulary, because there really is no such thing as dying. Still, just the thought of so-called death has become such an automatic negative response for most people—only the body withers. Your Soul never dies, and always has been perfect, whole, and complete. So instead, I would like to replace the words death and dying with the word “transition,” and phrases such as: “transition to the Light,” and “transition to the non-physical Heavenly realm.”
Living and dying are not a beginning and end; it’s a healing cycle of life’s journey to everlasting peace.
Instead, think of the physical death experience as a transition; a constant state of RENEWAL…continually cleansing, healing, learning, growing, and evolving…just as a flower blooms and withers, but then grows another beautiful bloom. So there is nothing bad at all, nothing to grieve. In fact, we could CELEBRATE instead. More people are realizing these truths and are having celebration of life ceremonies instead of traditional funerals.
The reason people feel lonely and fearful is that they experience separation from their Eternal life force; God, Source, Higher-Self, Agape Love, or whatever you call Universal Creation.
All stress, fear, emotional dis-ease, and limiting beliefs cause this misperception or feeling of separation from Source. There really is no separation between the physical and non-physical, except your belief and perception that there is.
“There is no death!
The stars go down to rise upon another shore.”
John McCreery
Memories are better than precious gems… they are something you can cherish and KEEP FOREVER…So, you never need to worry about losing them and experiencing loss, because their essence can always be near. Bring to mind heart-loving, happy memories, and you will begin to realize this and eventually relinquish the feeling of loss. Since the Soul never dies, you can communicate with your loved ones in the non-physical anytime you want.
By practicing alignment with Source/God through meditation, awareness, and focused mindfulness, you will never feel separate from who you Truly are…Love and Light, and thus, you will never feel lonely and always feel content and loved.
Merging with Source/God/Creation hereafter is the most blessed event possible, and I want to be at my BEST, so I plan to be as healthy and happy as possible, for when I decide to make this blessed transition into the non-physical Heavenly realm. I will definitely have a BIG smile on my face. ; )
“Why fear death? Death is only a beautiful adventure.”
Walt Whitman
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The following is an excerpt from my book, Live for the Light…
“Two of the biggest fears are the fear of death and hell. If you have these fears, I hope to shed some Light on how to resolve them right now by understanding that there really is no such thing as death. Energy is never destroyed; it continually transforms into Higher levels of consciousness, and the only hell is FEAR. The hellish, fearful illusions created by the mind, which many people live in right now. Hell is not a physical location, except in the dark side of the mind. Sure, eventually the body sheds to a new embodiment, but the Soul never dies; Spirit’s only desire is to expand in consciousness…and we can do so through the Law of Divine Love and Oneness.
We can experience a death of sorts while in the physical body, which is part of the healing process. When we surrender the attachment to the conditioned ego mind of fear and disease, it can feel like we lost a good friend, a close part of ourselves that for eons has been our identity, and essentially, this is literally true; I call this the dis-ease identity crisis. In this respect, losing our minds is a good thing! Essentially, we are NOT “losing,” but gaining access to our Higher-Self. In this case, we could say that less is definitely MORE; by losing your dis-ease, you become MORE of your True Self…Love and Divine Light. Are you ready to experience the Light?
When we understand the purpose of disease and healing, we can instead see “death” as a positive; a continual renewal of Self-growth and transformation into Divine Light, reclaiming our True Identity. Suicide is never a solution because you will need to come back and heal where you left off. Death is not an end, but a cycle of new beginnings, until all karma is transmuted through the Law of Cyclic Return and the cycle of rebirth and healing dis-ease is complete enough for the next higher realm of existence. As such, we cycle from the physical realm of polarity/duality into the realm of timeless Oneness, where everything is perfect, whole, complete, and constant. Then there’s no more cycling, no more cause and effect, because there is nothing left to cause harm; you become ONE with Divine Love. Yay!
We can then CHOOSE to live heaven on earth in service to others, or journey to and stay living in the Higher realms of EnLightened existence. My choice is the latter.
Just saying. Beam me up, Scotty.
I can imagine living in a more evolved, intelligent Light body, literally and figuratively, without the need for food, cars to travel, homes to live in, words to communicate, or money for survival. There’s no crime, government, violence, abuse, or war. Instead, there is less maintenance: food is unnecessary, money is superfluous, and travel, communication, and manifestation are telepathically instantaneous. This is why it’s critical to dissolve your fears first! You don’t want to manifest what you fear. Think about it. Just forgive and heal. But wait, there’s more goodness beyond…
In the higher realms, colors are more brilliant, smells are delightful, the air is delicious, the climate is always Divine, and every living creature lives in complete harmony on the only sustenance needed, Divine Love and Light!
It’s why I’ve made healing my number one priority in life. I can’t think of a more important goal.
I wish for nobody to mourn my passing, but instead, rejoice knowing I am rejoicing to be home for good, the most glorious Heavenly home.
Hopefully, you can now view so-called death from a Higher perspective, rather than as doom and gloom, and by healing all fear, the journey will become an exciting quest for everlasting peace. Moreover, you can always be with loved ones in Spirit, wherever you are. It’s never too late for healing. Even if someone is ready to pass on to another realm, they will take their healing with them! In fact, the most Divine healing is removing fears to help people make their transition easier. Yes, indeed.
If a loved one is in pain and you have done all you can, and they want to go, permit them to go, so they don’t linger in pain. They really don’t need your permission, but I say this because so many people hang on, feeling an obligation to stay, not to hurt their families. There are many NDE (near-death experiences) that confirm pain is relinquished as soon as they leave their body, and the journey towards the Light is a Divine experience…being embraced by Unconditional Love.
What could be more Divine to Brighten your day?!
The Law of Inverse Proportions states that one need not die if the pranic life force is not lost but increased. When drawn from Divine Source, we conquer death and fate. Get that? When drawn from Divine Source! The span of life is related to and in proportion to the rate of breathing. The actual number of breaths makes total sense when you understand disease and healing; you know that your state of mind is relative to how you breathe.
Fear causes stress, which eventually leads to physical symptoms and accelerates aging; it also triggers shallow, erratic breathing. Erratic, stressful breathing results in more breaths per minute, and all stress, ALL dis-ease separates us from Source-God!
In other words, erratic, stressful breathing shortens your life, not to mention the quality of life. Conversely, calm breathing signals slower brain waves, a healthier state of mind, and a longer life. When the rate of breathing is reduced to zero, the lifespan becomes Infinite! Should you be ALL in now? Both feet.
People are too focused on fear and their finite existence. When you focus on the BIGGER picture, Infinity, then you see the GREATER purpose of life with Infinite opportunities that motivate you to become the greatest version of yourself.”
Also, by eliminating the fear of death, it helps us to live more fully NOW, because I believe so many issues boil down to this one fear. I did not do all this healing because I feared death, or to eliminate pain. For me, healing is about gaining QUALITY of life and the bigger picture: life Eternal.
Near-death experiences (NDE) perhaps bring about the best evidence we may ever get as to what happens when we so- called die. I hope it brings you a little more peace on this subject. I have been researching people who’ve had NDE’s, and they all seem to have many of the SAME standard components, with variances depending upon their beliefs. Beliefs determine everything, so be very mindful of what you believe. You will always be granted your expectations, sooner or later. Here are the most common components of near-death experiencers.
1. Once they leave the body, any pain they might have had is quickly gone. Most talked about seeing their bodies and families below, and they wanted to be able to reassure them that everything was fine. Some said they couldn’t figure out what all the fuss was about. This alone might make you feel better.
2. They go through a dark tunnel. This can be somewhat difficult if one has fear, as fear and your beliefs will determine the quality of your experience, and why it is so vitally essential to heal all fear, especially if you fear the dark or the devil! If one has fear, there is time to experience and relinquish it! Afterward, they feel drawn toward a bright Light that envelops them in blissful Love. They are then at peace. So the best thing you can do for yourself and others is to create a more positive picture about the cycle of life, through better understanding, and eliminating fear, to make any transition period as easy and pleasant as possible… as it is supposed to be…very pleasant!
3. Depending on their beliefs, they are met by a familiar person they trust (family, Jesus, Angel) who counsels them. Communication is telepathic and instant. They feel all-knowing. All fear is gone. They are at peace.
4. They have a life review that happens very fast, in which they are shown where they have wronged/hurt people. No one judges them; the purpose is for you to judge yourself and learn where you went astray. So no need to fear the wrath of God. We create our own wrath. Throw all that fear out the window. Fear serves no good purpose, except when a hungry lion is chasing you. However, a hefty dose of love can even disarm a lion, because he won’t feel threatened.
- Most people had to come back. They were not given a choice. If they left in pain, they were returned to their pain body to heal where they left off. These accounts confirm what I have believed for a long time: that we must come back until we heal all dis-ease, we have learned all lessons, such as love, compassion, gratitude, joy, etc., and have FORGIVEN ourselves and others for all wrongdoing. That’s why it’s so important to heal all anger, guilt, resentment, etc. However, most of the NDE’s that I researched healed very quickly and naturally; some healed instantaneously. I believe how quickly one heals depends on their faith and beliefs (which determine everything), and on what they need to learn from the experience. They all returned with a new, improved perspective on life and felt compelled to share their expertise to help others, for which I am very grateful.
6. Some people had a CHOICE to stay in the non-physical heavenly realm or come back to earthly existence. Everyone whom I researched did not want to return because of the indescribable, incredible, unconditional love they felt. This alone should make you feel better about so-called death. But there were a few who had the choice to stay or leave, but decided to come back to take care of unfinished business (for example, to finish raising their kids), even though they preferred to stay in the non-physical heavenly realm.
7. All of them, including atheists and agnostics, explained and understood the Light to be God/Love/Creation/Source energy. They came back with an unshakable faith and a new understanding of how everything is for our good & learning.
Learning from near-death experiencers, it appears that when the body actually dies, and if we haven’t learned all lessons and have forgiven all, we come back into a NEW body to finish healing where we left off. So make sure to keep healing and forgiving yourself and others. But don’t worry if you don’t get it all done this lifetime around, we have an Eternity to get it right.
To help you on your healing journey…You may want to ask yourself and ponder the following questions…
Do I feel and experience inner love? Not needy human love. But unconditional self-love. So you can finally merge with Source energy.
Have I learned my life lessons, such as compassion, patience, forgiveness, etc.? If not, we have to keep coming back, and remember most NDE’s did not want to come back!
Have I served my life purpose? This is something you feel compelled to do and inspired to do, using your gifts.
Have I shared my gifts to help others? Very Important, it’s part of our purpose.
What fears (death, devil, dying in pain) might remain that impede my healing journey toward the Light? So that I don’t have to experience that fearful life story, and so it doesn’t continue to be my reality, and I don’t have to come back if I choose.
If I were to pass today, would I have any regrets? This should reveal where you may need healing. Physical symptoms, stress, and addictions are indicators of what we still need to heal. But don’t worry, it’s never too late!
Have I healed all emotional disease: anger, resentment, guilt, shame, hurt, etc.? So that I can forgive and finally make my way to a healthier, more Heavenly existence here and beyond permanently?! Don’t wait until the last days to heal, or leave when you are decrepit. Choose to recover now and prepare for an easy, healthy transition to the Light and Infinite happiness.
Have I forgiven myself and others? Remember, we are all connected, so when we hurt someone, we hurt ourselves. Actually feeling hurt comes from our own unhealed past hurts, and some people then try to project it onto others. In essence, nobody can make us feel hurt; they are reflecting the UNhealed emotions that still reside inside you. By the Law of Attraction, you are attracting and matching each other’s energy (emotional frequency), and showing each other where you need healing. Both need healing. With enough healing, you won’t be so affected by the unhealed emotions of others, because it’s no longer in you; you don’t have to walk around feeling the effects of the world. Forgiveness does NOT condone wrongdoing; it is a gift of healing we give to ourselves and others, a way to be free of disease and agony. Every act either comes from love or is a cry for healing and love.
Forgiving is not complicated. It does not matter whether they have passed on. It doesn’t matter if the other person is ready and receptive to forgiving you; that is their responsibility, and your healing is your responsibility. All you need to do is sit quietly, recall difficult situations in which you held anger, guilt, resentment, etc., and honestly offer a heartfelt prayer of forgiveness. Then be open to releasing and letting go of all anger. That’s all. All healing helps you and all of humanity to heal, raise in consciousness, and be FREE. If you still need a better understanding. Read more about forgiveness here. http://www.truehealingsolutions.com/forgiveness/
To summarize…
Creation of our life comes from our own consciousness; the QUALITY of our thoughts, emotions, and beliefs.
Unconscious living and dying result in a life with more disease, suffering, confusion, violence, and things unwanted.
Conscious living and dying result in a life that is healthier, more satisfying, easier, more pleasant, and more prosperous.
Healing is simpler than people think. It’s fear and limiting beliefs that get in the way of everything you want and a healthier, happier life. Remember this: since we create our own reality, then there is nothing “out there” to fear; all fear comes from our own erroneous subconscious programming. What you experience is a projection of your thoughts and beliefs, whether good or bad. How we live our lives, our ability to heal, and the choices we make are based on our MINDSET.
Consider these two vast differences in mindsets, choices, and outcomes:
Many people believe the following and therefore live their lives within this mindset: “We are born.” We live. We get old. We get a disease. I am a victim of the disease and the circumstances in my life. We die old, diseased, and decrepit. So they live with disease as long as they can, out of fear of the unknown, the devil, and/or to not hurt family, and prolong suffering (for them and family), and in many cases, cause unnecessary financial hardship and burden to family. Unfortunately, many people die in pain with many fears, in hospitals or assisted living homes, on medication/drugs that can make and keep them unconscious, and will make their “transition” to the Light more difficult.
Suicide is not a way out of suffering, as you can NOT escape from your own consciousness!
Hopefully, there are an increasing number of people seeking PROPER healing, and develop this mindset: I am born. I Live. I learn and grow from my challenges and experiences. I am not a victim. I am responsible. I’m learning my lessons. I create my entire reality, even the death of my body. I continually heal. I continually become more AWARE of who I am, and my innate powers to heal and recreate. I evolve. I can STAY happy, healthy, young, and active. I can choose to heal, so I can let go of my body, in a HEALTHY state of mind, without the need for drugs, doctors, hospitals, significant expenses, forced or violent death, or need for assistance of any kind. I will go because I feel I have fulfilled my purpose; I’ve done everything I wanted to do, and life has just lost its luster. Therefore, I’m ready to go on, spread my wings, and explore… learn more, and have bigger and better adventures in the non-physical. I can consciously choose to live my life in a way that prepares me to pass peacefully when I want, at any age, even when I’m young, in a healthy, happy state of mind, totally prepared to merge with Loving Source energy.
So don’t wait until the last days to prepare. Since there is no beginning and no end to life, we should naturally want to be healthier and more aware, to improve the quality of our lives for now and eternity. The more we heal, the easier it will be to ensure a blessed transition to the Light.
You have control, you have the power to heal, clear your fears, and change the focus of your thoughts to REcreate a more desired reality consciously. Ultimately, only you can determine your destiny. That’s what life is all about…discovering your True nature and inner power to create the life of your best dreams imaginable, because life really is a figment of our imagination! So keep re-imagining.
The best thing anyone can do is heal and do everything they can to feel good naturally. Because feeling good is what will attract good things into your life, and repel bad things. Ultimately, everyone is trying to feel good. Unfortunately, since many people aren’t familiar with True Healing Solutions, they are going about feeling good the wrong way…the backwards way, artificially. They are treating symptoms using Unnatural external quick fixes, and too often it involves some drug, whether it be street or prescription, which can keep people fooled. Even many natural remedies and avoidance diets will only help so far, because they never really heal the underlying emotional issues that separate them from true happiness and discovering their own Divinity. You can’t fake the Universe. You can’t have negative emotions and experience true joy at the same time. All symptom type treatments either cover up, suppress, or skirt around the real cause. Eventually, the pressure of suppressed emotions will slowly smolder into worse conditions. It’s like building a volcano of anxious emotions; the negative energy must go somewhere, so more symptoms may develop, or existing ones worsen. All true healing is inward and natural, clears underlying causes, yields lasting results, and ultimately leads to discovering inner happiness and your own Divinity. Feeling good emotionally and organically is what will make your transition to the Light EASY and Divine. My healing services and workshop, Master Your Destiny, help you do just that.
“Sweet is death who puts an end to pain.” Alfred Lord Tennyson
Take time every day to heal and forgive yourself and others, knowing that pain and suffering are gateways to healing and to making room for love. It’s not too late to RECREATE a positive picture of how you want your life to be now and for Eternity.
The ULTIMATE goal of healing is to end the vicious cycle of suffering, disease, death of the body, and even rebirth, and finally reach a heavenly state of mind, and merge with Loving Source energy. The only sure path to the Light forever is through healing all emotional disease, forgiveness, and attaining self-love.
With enough healing, Passing Peacefully can be as easy as…making an intentional decision when one feels complete with his or her mission in life, and is fully ready just to let go without fear, and gracefully relax into a deep, peaceful slumber. Once all disease is healed, the final exit is a blessed, joyous reunion with the Light for Eternity.
Many Blessings to you on your healing journey
Stages of Grief – the first 7 stages are what you typically read about.
I added an 8th step that I hope you and more people can reach quickly.
These phases may last for weeks, months, or years, depending on how quickly you handle, understand, process, and heal the following.
1. SHOCK & DENIAL – Most people react to learning of their perceived loss with numbed disbelief. You may deny reality to avoid emotional pain. Shock provides emotional protection from being too overwhelmed. Although it can be unbearable for some, it is vital that you experience the pain fully, and not hide, avoid, or escape from it with alcohol, drugs, or any other long-term symptom treatment, as it will turn into PTSD. So release and heal bottled-up emotion constructively, ASAP.
2. GUILT & REMORSE – As the shock wears off, without proper healing, it is usually replaced with guilt. You may have guilty feelings or remorse over things you did or didn’t do to help your loved one, even though you may have done your best. Try not to be hard on yourself; this is a typical reaction, but usually without merit.
3. ANGER & BARGAINING – At this stage, if you haven’t healed the guilt, you may feel angry and even lash out with unwarranted blame on others or even yourself. You may say or think, “You or I could have or should have done this or that better.” Try to avoid this, or come to terms with it, as it may damage your relationships. You may rail against fate, questioning, “Why did this happen to them/me?” You may also try bargaining with God to ease your anger and despair. You may say, “I will never drink, or do this or that again, if you just bring him/her back, I will do better, I promise.” It’s important NOT to take on the burden or feel responsible for other people’s lives and fates.
4. DEPRESSION & LONELINESS – Unhealed anger and grief may turn to depression. During this time, you feel the full magnitude of your perceived loss, and you may isolate yourself on purpose and reflect on things you did with your loved one. But instead of feeling happy about your memories, you feel emptiness and/or despair. When you think you should be getting on with your life, a long period of sad reflection may overtake you. Without proper healing, encouragement from others may not help much. If depression seems to linger, nutritional supplements may be helpful, as stress causes dietary deficiencies, and certain deficiencies (especially protein and vitamins D & B) alone can cause depression. So taking extra nutritional supplements during stressful times can help.
5. MOVING ON – As you start to heal and adjust to life without your loved one, your life becomes calmer and more stable. Your physical symptoms lessen, and your “depression” begins to lift. As you heal and feel better, you will seek to engage more fully in life without him or her. Moving on can be expedited when you realize that death of the body is NOT an end; it’s a healing cycle of renewal as part of life’s journey to reach everlasting peace.
6. ACCEPTANCE & HOPE – The better you can accept your situation, the easier it will be to deal with the reality of your life sooner. I know it can be especially difficult to mourn a child. Knowing they are at peace in heaven should help. Acceptance does not necessarily mean instant happiness. But you will begin to look forward to and actually plan things for the future. Eventually, you will be able to think about your loved one without pain. With proper healing and self-acceptance, you will once again anticipate good times and find joy. The sooner in life we learn, realize, and accept that this life is eternal, the sooner we can move through these stages and with greater ease.
7. FORGIVENESS – Once you accept fully what has happened, it will then be easier to forgive and have compassion for yourself. I hope you can forgive yourself and anyone you might have blamed for not doing enough. This is such a normal reaction; most people feel that there surely must have been something else they or someone else could have done, even if they did everything they knew to do. Know that forgiving will help you heal and move on with your life. In fact, ALL healing is an act of forgiveness.
8. UNDERSTANDING & GRACE – Once we begin to understand the natural cycle of life, fear, stress, grief, and the feeling of attachment to others lessen. Through healing emotional dis-ease, the duration through the stages of grief and detachment from others can be significantly shortened and less overwhelming, and eventually, so-called death will/can be viewed from a new positive perspective without grief at all, but a time for celebration, and appreciation for life. Eventually, with enough healing, people will be able to skip stages or go through them with ease. All healing brings more grace to one’s life, and closer to knowing our True-self, where peace and true happiness reside. This is my dream for humanity. Remember that everyone is responsible for their own fate, and the transition to bodily death is a natural part of the cycle of life and renewal.
“We are only on loan to each other.” Unknown
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Homeopathic Remedies for Grief and Depression
Ignatia
The personality type for this remedy tends to become resentful, secretive, and moody while suffering inwardly, shutting themselves off. They appear sad but don’t express it publicly because they can’t; then, once they are alone, thoughts of the loss come back. They fight the tears, swallow the feelings, and get a lump in the throat and/or a sense of constriction in their chest. They sigh and yawn in an (unconscious) attempt to get some oxygen, and this makes them feel a bit better. They become antisocial, not wanting company or sympathy (although they don’t adversely reject it). They want to be alone to cry, because they don’t want to cry in front of others. When they do break down, they will cry loudly, but may feel embarrassed, so that they may laugh at the same time.
Natrum Muriaticum
The personality type for this remedy carries more deep-seated grief and is similar to the Ignatia type. These are very sensitive, intensely private people who can appear cool because they are reluctant to talk and express their feelings, as they don’t want others to know they are hurting. They are sensitive to other people’s feelings, and others confide in them easily. They tend to go inward when depressed, preferring to stay at home alone, but even then, they have difficulty crying and letting go.
Pulsatilla
The personality type for this remedy when grief-stricken is more weepy. They are gentle souls who are easily moved to laughter or tears, but tend to have more fears. They are affectionate and deeply compassionate, and they cannot bear to see anyone hurt. They need more affection and reassurance. They always feel better after a good cry, especially if they are also offered some sympathy or consolation at the same time.